Life isn't how it is, but how we are in it Writer: Maryam KALEEM

  Life isn't how it is, but how we are in it

Writer: Maryam KALEEM

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"What we think, we become. Our ideas create all that we are. We create the world with our thinking."

Everybody has a unique viewpoint on life. Some of us view whatever occurs as positive. While others continue to blame life's challenges. Why do some people appreciate the splendor of the landscape while others only see dried leaves and trash lying around? Why do some of us alter the environment while others alter themselves in response to the environment?
In truth, the outside world is only a reflection of the within. You view the world as you feel about it. Life is seen by us, not as it actually is.

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Everything is not the way it is, but rather how we are

Hardly anything in the outside environment can sway you if you are internally stable. If you're content within, nothing can bother you outside. However, you will struggle to find enduring satisfaction if your happiness is solely dependent on your surroundings and other people.

Effect of Situations and Circumstances:

 Some people play their life according to their own rules, while others merely react to their circumstances. Always keep in mind that you have the ability to overcome any challenges. Without you, your surroundings have no influence.

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"Your current situation just determines where you start; it does not dictate where you may go." ~

Why do we sometimes succumb to our surroundings? When anything goes wrong, we feel like victims. According to your abilities, God assigns your problems. The next time you face a struggle in life, remind yourself that you are stronger than it. "I am larger than everything that can befall to me," remarked Charles F. Lummis.

Life's challenges exist to strengthen us. Once you master this life skill, you can overcome any obstacle. You transform into a different person after you experience problems. Grow how to move past adversity and learn from it.

Make intelligent thought choices:

Everybody in the world has a unique nature. What factors influence a person's personality? Circumstances? No. You must have observed others in similar circumstances with a variety of attitudes. One's manner of thinking, which shapes their way of living, is what distinguishes one from others.

Do you reals how strong your ideas can be? The personality is entirely influenced by thoughts. Both damaging and positive effects are possible. We react or answer to the happenings in life based on these ideas. And our lives change for the better or worse based on the characteristics of our thinking.

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"The outcome of our predominate thinking inevitably manifests itself in our lives."

We have control over our ideas, which improves the life we lead. You can develop a plan of action once you realize where you can take complete control of your thinking. You are capable of living a life of meaning.

You can't always compel your thoughts to do anything. Consider it a young child. You must use your intellect to treat a youngster with love and care. Meditation is a fantastic tool.

Your life's beliefs: 

Our beliefs have developed over the years after our birth. Tony Robbins claims in "Awaken the Giant Within" that once we have a belief, we filter all information according to that belief. We seldom ever challenge our beliefs. We place greater value on what we think than what we observe.

You will continue to underestimate yourself if you have personality thoughts. The only way to end your cycle is to start challenging your limiting beliefs. Life is shaped by our beliefs. On the other hand, if you think you can't accomplish anything, you won't be able to.

The majority of the choices we make are subconsciously influenced by these ideas. As a result, you will act positively if you have strong confidence that you can accomplish anything. If you are unsure that you can do anything, you will likely find reasons to avoid it.

"Beliefs have the ability to both generate and destroy. People have the amazing capacity to interpret each incident in their life in a way that either diminishes their power or, conversely, has the potential to preservice it. 

Create a Life you want:

Many of us just pass our life waiting for weekends and holidays. Why do not we seize every day? Why do not we live every day?

Do you have a sense of satisfaction and joy all day? Are you living the life you want? If not, it is time to take control of your life.

You are born to live life your way. Your thoughts create your life. It is the time to nourish your thoughts. It is time to overcome the beliefs that are limiting you. Do not wait anymore. Take a step ahead. Do it now. Your dream life is waiting for you.

“May you live all the days of your life.” ~

                Thanks for reading.